Hey I'm Matt!!!!

Welcome to MY Squeaky bone!!!

So this is my dating blog!

Who I am, what I do, what exactly "the squeaky bone" refers to doesnt matter right now, we got plenty of time to get into the details.

Why have I started a dating blog? To be honest . . . mainly its part of this thing I've got going on right now to see if I can earn money from my writing. It was LONG overdue, feeling slightly dumb I spent the last 2 years providing free content to myspace!

Mind you, myspace did change my life. What it comes down to is that if you have strong written communication skills like I do, its really quite straightforward impressing women on the internet.

more on that . . . well, all the time really. Back to our brief summation on the commercial side of things; The happy outcome is that the subject of this blog is a matter of intense interest not only to myself but the great majority of human beings globally.

SEX.

I'm not going to outline vigourously right now what I want it to be or not be.

But I guess I'd like to think, though at times certainly gratuitous, this is not for sleazy faux erotic cheap thrills. This is not a sex manual, The practical application of sexual technique is not something I'll really be getting into. I'm certainly not a porn star. It might be interesting to test that theory one day, though my cock would hardly meet standard industry measurements.

This is more of a practical and theoretical journal on the social side of sexuality.

Oh, so I mean it's "sex and the city" for internet geeks? I pick up chicks off the internet and at the end of each 42 minutes I round off with a voice over monologue about what we learned?

Uhhh . . . hmmmm . . .

As I say its also an outlet for analysis, discussion and theory, to deconstruct and reconstruct social elements of sexuality and of course . . . modern notions of "romance".

You see, I'm not a Pick Up Artist. I'm a hopeless romantic, and as you'll learn as a writer, as a storyteller, as an actor, I've learnt to deal with that on my own terms.

So while being a journal of personal experience its also a journal of ideas about sexuality, and as a man, about male sexuality, I really want put some ideas out there about that.

Just because I'm a romantic and I'm sensitive, articulate, intelligent etc. I'm still a man. It's still about the pleasure principle. I still live for the . . . [edits out indulgently descriptive sketch of sex as a mans highest fulfillment. not keen to look like a complete tosser just yet] . . . I like to f+ck okay? Thats what men are like. Thats what we're about.

That is who I am, and I resent the inference from society that because I was born a man and seek sexual gratification there is something inappropriate about that. As a man, sex is important to me and I resent the implication that wanting sex makes me insensitive. I don't expect to be considered shallow because I'm motivated primarily by sex. There will always be give and take, tacit negotiation, bargaining, power struggles over sex. And that is also what this blog is about.

I respect and revere femininity as the driving inspiration of my art, my work, my creativity, my whole life. The foundation of romance, and of even physical and spiritual existance itself is love. Understanding helps there too;

Amongst other things, I believe right now society actually suffers from the sexual repression of male sexuality and it forms the basis of misogynist attitudes.

I would never respect a woman any less if she did not want to have sex with me. And I would never expect to be thought any less of because I did.

Yeah so that's me. I'm Matt, I'm a writer, a musician, a businessman, a romantic and my favourite thing I like to do is fuck. I'm gonna be talking a lot about picking up chicks, predominatly through the internet, and what I think about that.

Welcome to MY SQUEAKY BONE!!!